Reframing Failure

Tina Schuricht • January 23, 2026

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Reframing failure and using setbacks as fuel for growth can be challenging in a world that celebrates achievement. Failure is often seen as something to be feared and avoided at all costs. This perception, however, overlooks a powerful truth: setbacks are not endpoints but steppingstones. When we reframe failure and view it through the lens of growth, we unlock its potential to propel us forward. These are tips that I give to my son’s basketball team every practice and every game. If you make a mistake, don’t hang your head…use it as fuel to do better the next time down the court.


Understanding the Value of Failure

Failure is an inevitable part of any endeavor worth pursuing. Whether you’re launching a business, learning a new skill, or striving for personal improvement, mistakes and setbacks are bound to happen. While the initial sting of failure can be discouraging, it is essential to recognize that every setback contains valuable lessons. The key is not to avoid failure, but to harness it as a catalyst for personal and professional development.


Shifting Perspective: From Shame to Opportunity

The first step in reframing failure is changing how we perceive it. Instead of viewing failure as a reflection of our worth or ability, we should see it as feedback. Each failure provides information about what doesn’t work, offering clues on how to improve. Thomas Edison famously said, “I have not failed. I’ve just found 10,000 ways that won’t work.” This mindset shift transforms failure from a source of shame into an opportunity for learning.


Building Resilience Through Setbacks

Setbacks test our resilience. When we encounter obstacles, we have a choice: to give up or to persist. By choosing the latter, we build mental toughness and adaptability—qualities essential for long-term success. Resilience is not about never falling down; it’s about getting back up, learning from the experience, and trying again with renewed determination.


Practical Steps to Reframe Failure

  • Reflect and Analyze: After a setback, take time to reflect. What happened? What factors contributed to the outcome? By analyzing the situation objectively, you can identify areas for improvement.
  • Extract Lessons: Every failure contains a lesson. Ask yourself what you learned and how you can apply this knowledge in the future. This approach turns each setback into a steppingstone.
  • Adjust Your Approach: Use the insights gained to refine your strategy. Innovation often arises from trial and error. Adjusting your course based on feedback is a sign of growth, not weakness.
  • Celebrate Effort, Not Just Results: Acknowledge the courage it took to try, regardless of the outcome. Celebrating effort fosters a growth mindset and encourages continued learning.
  • Share Your Story: Talking about failure can help dismantle the stigma associated with it. By sharing your experiences, you inspire others to view setbacks as a natural part of the journey.


Fuel for Growth

Reframing failure is not about denying disappointment or pretending setbacks don’t hurt. It’s about recognizing the inherent value in every misstep and using it as fuel for growth. When we embrace failure as a teacher, we open ourselves up to new possibilities and greater resilience. In the end, it is not the absence of failure, but our response to it, that determines our ultimate success. Reach out if you want to learn more about how to use setbacks as fuel for growth.

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